Why We ARGUE!

“𝘐 𝘢𝘯π˜₯𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘡𝘒𝘯π˜₯.” 😐

“π˜•π˜°, 𝘺𝘰𝘢 π˜₯𝘰𝘯’𝘡 𝘢𝘯π˜₯𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘡𝘒𝘯π˜₯!” 😑

“𝘐 π˜₯𝘰 𝘢𝘯π˜₯𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘡𝘒𝘯π˜₯. 𝘠𝘰𝘢’𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘱𝘴𝘦𝘡 𝘣𝘦𝘀𝘒𝘢𝘴𝘦…𝘡𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦, 𝘡𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦’𝘴 𝘯𝘰 𝘳𝘦𝘒𝘴𝘰𝘯 𝘡𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘢𝘱𝘴𝘦𝘡.”

“π˜•π˜°! 𝘠𝘰𝘢 𝘫𝘢𝘴𝘡 π˜₯𝘰𝘯’𝘡 𝘨𝘦𝘡 π˜ͺ𝘡!”

I made an earlier post about how it’s important to distinguish in an argument where each side is coming from. Many arguments come from the simple miscommunication of reasoning: one side primarily using Logical Reasoning and the other primarily using Emotional Reasoning.

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– When a person explains logically why the other person is feeling the way they do, that’s not what the other side wants. The other side wants the person to enter their Emotional Home, to feel that they’re feeling. Empathy. ❀️

– When a person explains emotionally why the other person doesn’t understand them, that’s not what the other side wants. The other side wants the person to enter their Intellectual Home, to use reason in the situation. Rationality. 🧠

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– It’s important for your Intellectual self to know there’s a difference between Intelligence and Wisdom. One can know intellectually how someone is feeling. But to be up close and personal with it themselves, to emotionally experience the same emotions another person is feeling, is an additional form of understanding.Β πŸ™Œ

– It’s important for your Emotional self to know there’s a difference between Emotions and Emotional Intelligence. One can feel emotionally that something is wrong in a situation. But it’s another to be aware how our emotions can distort our thinking and impede on understanding another person’s point of view.Β πŸ‘

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These are of course big generalizations I’m listing, and they should not be taken as black-and-white as I do with them here. They mix and overlap. But I regardless find it important to start somewhere in understanding the different types of communication.

With understanding comes appreciation. With appreciation comes love. ❀️

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