โค๏ธ ๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐! โค๏ธ
I am someone who is gayโฆI rarely talk about it. ๐คทโโโ
I am someone who is HispanicโฆI rarely talk about it. ๐คทโโโ
I am someone who is LiberalโฆI rarely talk about it. ๐คทโโโ
I am someone who is AtheistโฆI (especially) rarely talk about it. ๐คทโโโ
Why do I rarely talk about these things? ๐ค
Wellโฆlet’s take a step back. ๐ฃ
Say you were meeting me for the very first time, and the only information you were given about who I am were these labels: ๐
Male. Gay. Hispanic. Liberal. Atheist.
What kind of person comes to your mind that fits into each of these categories? ๐ค
What comes to your mind when you think of a โGay Maleโ? Flamboyant? Feminine? Limp wrists?
What comes to your mind when you think of an โAtheist?โ Snobbish? Science-obsessed? Blasphemous?
Nowโฆtake these labels and apply them back to me. And compare these labels to how you ๐ข๐ค๐ต๐ถ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐บ know me as a person. ๐โโ๏ธ
Let me ask: do these labels easily fit into your general perception of me? ๐
Of Donald Arteaga? ๐คทโโ๏ธ
If your answer is โnoโโฆTHAT is the reason why!
๐ ๐๐ก๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฌ๐จ๐ง ๐ ๐ซ๐๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐๐๐ฌ๐๐ซ๐ข๐๐ ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐๐ซ๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐จ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฌ๐ ๐ฅ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ ๐ ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐๐ ๐ฆ๐ ๐๐ฌ ๐ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฆ๐๐ง ๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ , ๐๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ๐๐ฆ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ, ๐๐๐๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฅ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ฌ. ๐
Iโd rather we all be judged, as Martin Luther King Jr. said, based upon the content of our character. ๐ค
๐ I donโt intend for you to judge me by virtue of my sexual preference.
๐ I donโt intend for you to judge me by virtue of my race.
๐ I donโt intend for you to judge me by virtue of my political views.
๐ I donโt intend for you to judge me by virtue of my religious affiliation.
โค๏ธ ๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐! โค๏ธ
THIS is why I generally donโt provide this information to people upfront. I want you to get to know ME first, minus the preconceptions. ๐
๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐ ๐๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ก๐๐ฌ๐ข๐ณ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฌ๐ ๐ฅ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐ ๐๐ฆ, ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐ ๐๐ง๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐๐ ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐๐ ๐ฆ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐จ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฌ๐ ๐ฅ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ฌ. ๐
The problem is these labels are only mere facets of who I am as a human being, just as I believe this to be the case for any other human being. ๐
Iโve held this ideal ever since I started my mission to Transcend Labels in 2018. โณ
The ideal has always been for me to show through my example that people donโt have to be entrenched in their labels. ๐ฏ
The ideal has always been for me to show that my diagnosis of Autism is just a temporary explanation and not a final destination. ๐ฏ
The ideal has always been for me to show how limiting labels are as frameworks for understanding ourselves and other people. ๐ฏ
Consider the facts:
๐ No one on this planet is 100% exactly the same.
๐ No one thinks 100% exactly the same way.
๐ No one has lived 100% exactly the same life as another person.
๐๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ ๐จ๐ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ข๐ง๐ก๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐ข๐ง๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐๐ฎ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ, ๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ก๐๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ญ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐๐ฅ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐๐๐๐ก ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ .
๐๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ ๐จ๐ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ข๐ง๐ก๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐ข๐ง๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐๐ฎ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ, ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐งโ๐ฌ ๐ฅ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐๐๐ง ๐ง๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ ๐๐จ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐๐ฑ, ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐ช๐ฎ๐ ๐ข๐ง๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐๐ฎ๐๐ฅ ๐ฅ๐๐ฒ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง ๐๐๐๐ก ๐จ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฌ.
๐๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ ๐จ๐ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ข๐ง๐ก๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐ข๐ง๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐๐ฎ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ, ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐งโ๐ฌ ๐ฅ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐๐๐ง ๐ง๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐๐ซ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐๐ง๐ญ ๐จ๐ ๐จ๐ง๐’๐ฌ ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง๐๐ฅ ๐๐ก๐๐ซ๐๐๐ญ๐๐ซ.
As Ayishat Akanbi put it: “๐ป๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐
๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐
๐๐๐๐๐๐.” The obsession with oneโs labels become a self-fulfilling prophecy which leaves no room for change, let alone the possibility for personal growth. ๐
For me, my mission to Transcend Labels is a life-affirming philosophy that says we are more than our pasts, more than our circumstances, and that we are capable of becoming more than the people we were yesterday. โ
โค๏ธ ๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐! โค๏ธ
Perhaps as you read this, this sounds like common sense to you! ๐
Butโฆthings seemed to have changed. ๐ง
Not with my mission; it remains the same. But Iโm talking about within our society. ๐ฅ
More and more I continue reading about a growing ideology that:
๐ฑ Encourages people to see each other ONLY for their labels, not for their individuality.
๐ฑ Encourages people to see each other ONLY for their group identities, not for their common humanity.
๐ฑ Encourages people to see each other ONLY through a zero-sum lens of either being Oppressors or being Oppressed.
๐ฑ Encourages people to indulge in cognitive biases like mindreading, overgeneralizing, and black-and-white thinking.
This smorgasbord of an ideology has come to be more popularly known as: โbeing wokeโ.
(๐๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ข ๐๐ฐ๐ด๐ฆ๐ต๐ต๐ข ๐ด๐ต๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐๐ฐ๐ฌ๐ฆ ๐ช๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ฐ๐จ๐บ, ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ โ๐๐บ๐ฏ๐ช๐ค๐ข๐ญ ๐๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ช๐ฆ๐ด: ๐๐ฐ๐ธ ๐๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ท๐ช๐ด๐ต ๐๐ค๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ข๐ณ๐ด๐ฉ๐ช๐ฑ ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐ฆ ๐๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐บ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐๐ฃ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ต ๐๐ข๐ค๐ฆ, ๐๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ณ, ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต๐ช๐ต๐บโ ๐ฃ๐บ ๐๐ข๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ด ๐๐ช๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ด๐ข๐บ & ๐๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐๐ญ๐ถ๐ค๐ฌ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ด๐ฆ.)
Simply putโฆthe very ideals Iโve stood for the past few years are in direct opposition to this ideology. ๐คทโโโ
So perhaps you can understand why a part of me is fascinated at how this ideology has reached such a wide audience, especially among the political Left, with little Critical (pun intended) examination. ๐
Perhaps you can understand my fascination reading about this ideology that argues the very ideals I stand for, the message Iโve promoted for years, can now be entirely summarized under labels like โwhite supremacyโ, “white privilege”, “patriarchy”, โracistโ, โmicroaggressionโ, and โhatefulโ. ๐คจ
โค๏ธ ๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐! โค๏ธ
But I get it. โค๏ธ
I understand in these current times A LOT of us are stressed out and worried. I understand itโs hard for anyone to think clearly, let alone rationally, when our minds are shrouded in weeds. ๐
๐ ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ญ’๐ฌ ๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฒ ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ค ๐ข๐ง ๐ง๐ฎ๐๐ง๐๐๐, ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐๐ฑ ๐ฐ๐๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ง ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐๐ฌ ๐ง๐๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐๐ซ๐๐ฏ๐ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐๐ฎ๐ฅ ๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐๐ฌ.
If I were to combine every negative event which has happened the past year, I can’t blame someone for not feeling comfortable with all this Uncertainty. ๐จ
As I saw 1 tweet put it: โ๐๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ญ๐๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ ๐ ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ๐๐ฐ๐๐ฅ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐๐ฅ ๐๐๐๐ข๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐ญ๐ก ๐จ๐ ๐๐๐ซ๐ญ๐๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐ฒ.โ โค๏ธ
So yes, I definitely understand that lots of people at this time will be desperate to find something which helps them get back to Certainty, back to some sense of clarity and normalcy, back to some sense of renewed purpose and meaningโฆeven if that means embracing an over-simplistic, fringe ideology like this one. ๐
And THIS is one of the main reasons why Iโve not spoken up about this topic personally. ๐โ๐ฆ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฅ๐จ๐จ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐๐ค๐ ๐ ๐๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐โ๐ฌ ๐๐ฅ๐๐ง๐ค๐๐ญ ๐๐ฐ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ก๐ข๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ง ๐ก๐โ๐ฌ ๐๐๐๐ซ๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐จ ๐ข๐ญ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐๐๐๐ซ ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐. ๐ญ
At the moment, the child needs something, anything to stay calm and feel safe. ๐ก
Donโt get me wrong, there are 100% real problems in our society that still need to be solved. I’m not here to pretend like everything is all fine and dandy. It’s not.
But weโre not going to solve them when weโre making the incorrect diagnoses, which in turn prescribe the wrong solutions. ๐
๐๐โ๐ซ๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ ๐จ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฏ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐๐ฑ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐๐ฅ๐๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ง ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฌ๐จ๐๐ข๐๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฌ๐๐ฆ๐ ๐จ๐ฏ๐๐ซ-๐ฌ๐ข๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ข๐๐ก ๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐ซ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฆ. ๐
But that part of the discussion will be saved for another postโฆ
My point is: THIS is not the way forward. โ
โค๏ธ ๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐! โค๏ธ
๐คฌ โ๐พ๐ฌ๐ณ๐ณ ๐ด๐น. ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฏ-๐จ๐ต๐ซ-๐ด๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ป๐ ๐ซ๐ถ๐ต๐จ๐ณ๐ซ, ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ป ๐จ๐ต๐ ๐ฉ๐ฌ๐ป๐ป๐ฌ๐น ๐ฐ๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐บ?!โ ๐คฌ
I believe I do! And it goes right back to what I was talking about earlier. ๐
๐ We move forward by focusing on our common humanity.
๐ We move forward by focusing on what we have in common.
๐ We move forward by NOT assuming malicious intent of those who disagree with us.
๐ We move forward by focusing on understanding and less on labeling.
๐๐ ๐๐๐
๐
๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฐ๐๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฅ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐๐๐ซ๐ซ๐ฒ ๐๐ฒ ๐๐จ๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ง ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ.
๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฐ๐๐ซ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง๐๐ฅ ๐๐ข๐๐ฌ๐๐ฌ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐๐ฃ๐ฎ๐๐ข๐๐๐ฌ ๐๐๐ซ๐ซ๐ฒ ๐๐ฒ ๐๐จ๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ง ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ.
๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฅ๐๐ง๐ฌ๐๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก ๐ฐ๐ก๐ข๐๐ก ๐ฐ๐ ๐ ๐๐ง๐๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐๐ ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐โฆ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฆ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ ๐ง๐ข๐๐ข๐๐๐ง๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ง ๐๐จ๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ง ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ.
For every time we do this, weโll remind our survival brain whoโs in charge of how we connect with others. ๐ง
Weโll remind our survival brain how naรฏve the caricatures we create in our minds about mass groups of people are. ๐ง
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ข๐ง ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฌ๐จ๐๐ข๐๐ญ๐ฒ, ๐ฅ๐๐ญโ๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ง๐๐ ๐ฅ๐๐๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฒ ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ฅ๐๐ฒ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง ๐๐๐๐ก ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฒ ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฌ. ๐๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฐ๐’๐ซ๐ ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ๐ฎ๐๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ซ๐๐๐๐.
โค๏ธ ๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐! โค๏ธ
Because whatโs the alternative?
๐ A society which is OBSESSED with focusing on what makes us separate from each other.
๐ A society which DISCRIMINATES people based primarily upon their labels.
๐ A society which attempts to solve the problem of prejudiceโฆwith EVEN MORE PREJUDICE.
That doesnโt sound like a desirable outcome, does it? Sounds a bit backwards, right? It’s honestly quite IL-liberal! ๐
Butโฆthankfully we donโt have to go down that route! We don’t have to become “woke”! ๐ฏ
I challenge you to come with me and take the road less traveled. Itโs important to remember that just because something is popular in the moment doesnโt automatically mean itโs right. ๐
I challenge you to come with me and use what might be considered a more โradicalโ approach these days to connecting with others:
๐๐จ ๐ฌ๐๐ ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ฌ ๐๐ฌ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฆ๐๐ง ๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ๐๐ฆ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ. ๐๐จ ๐ญ๐ซ๐๐๐ญ ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐ฉ๐๐๐ญ, ๐๐ฏ๐๐ง ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ง ๐ข๐ญ’๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐๐ง ๐๐๐๐ค. ๐๐จ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐๐๐ญ๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ, ๐๐ฏ๐๐ง ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง ๐๐จ๐๐ฌ๐ง’๐ญ ๐ซ๐๐๐ข๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐๐๐ญ๐. ๐๐จ ๐ซ๐๐ฆ๐๐ฆ๐๐๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ซ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ซ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐, ๐๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ข๐ซ๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐๐ข๐ซ๐ ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐๐ซ๐๐๐ญ๐๐ฌ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐๐ข๐ซ๐. ๐๐จ ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ซ๐๐๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐๐ฎ๐ฅ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ.
But if all this sounds too overwhelming, how about just this…?
๐๐จ๐ฎโ๐ซ๐ ๐ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฆ๐๐ง ๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ . ๐๐ง๐ ๐โ๐ฆ ๐ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฆ๐๐ง ๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ . ๐ฅ
๐๐๐ญโ๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ซ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ๐. ๐
๐๐จ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐. ๐๐ง๐ ๐ง๐จ ๐ฅ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ. โค๏ธ
โค๏ธ ๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐, ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐
๐๐๐๐๐๐! โค๏ธ
SHARE this post with anyone who needs this reminder!
